Controlling Your Hatred and Hateful Feelings

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Matthew:5:44 But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you

Controlling Your Hatred and Vengeance Requires Faith and Self Control...

Hatred and hateful feelings, unfortunately are all apart of human civilization. Just look in the bible, and you will read the account of the first recorded murder in history; Cain killing his brother Abel, which is recorded in Genesis 4:1-15.

No doubt you are on this page for a particular reason to resolve or to obtain answers regarding hatred, and hateful feelings of animosity in the hopes of elevating your anger management feelings that you are holding towards someone in your personal or professional life.

If you want to experience successful relationships , a happy marriage , and to be fulfilled in your career goals , at work, you have to able to control your hatred and hateful feelings.

Overcoming Hatred, Animosity and Hateful Feelings Requires a Heart Turned towards God

As a Christian believer in the Lord Jesus Christ, I believe that is impossible to reach the level of optimal personal and professional development without a personal relationship with God in your life.

If you are harboring anger, resentment, bitterness or jealousy due to someone who wronged you, you will be forever bound and held captive to your hatred and hateful feelings, because you will be unable to offer true forgiveness to others' without first seeking forgiveness from the Lord God in your own life.

All the violence, hatred, ill-feelings, and animosity is a direct result to the sinful nature of mankind. The only way you are capable of removing the hatred and vengeance feelings in your own life is by asking the Lord to come into your life and asking him to forgive you of your sins in your life.

Apart from God in you life, you cannot remove the hatred and bitterness in your own life. If you don't know how to meditate to God, ask Him in earnest meditation to help you in this area, and in overcoming animosity and the vengeance you are experiencing.

Share Your feelings of Hatred and Ill-Feelings with a Fellow Believer

Sharing your feelings with others' is no different than business communication in an office environment at work. Seeking out fellow Christian believers about your struggles in dealing with hatred and animosity towards others, is a very beneficial and powerful tool.

God wants us to all develop successful relationships not only with God-but with other fellow believers as well.

There is power in prayer; praying is not only the right thing to do, it is a demonstration of our hope and faith that we have in trusting in God in helping us to overcome obstacles in our lives. This brings about real spiritual growth as well as character development.

Seek Professional Christian Counseling in Dealing with your Hate

I have helped me many people with their goals in life (about me), and sometimes it is necessary to seek professional counseling, in helping you in overcoming the hate and ill-feelings you harbor towards others.

It is during these situations where it should be a priority and part of your smart goals and objectives, in seeking professional help in addressing your ill-feelings you have.

Just make sure you seek someone who has the experience and credibility in helping your overcome the hate in your life, so you can once again learn how to be happy once again in your life.

Forgive the Person or Persons to Whom you Harbor Anger and Resentment Towards

You must have the wisdom for proper decision making from your heart, in order to forgive the person or persons who have wronged you. I’ll admit this is not an easy thing to do, and it make take some real before you are finally in a position where you can relinquish your ill-feelings and offer real forgiveness that demonstrates unconditional love .

Allow God to carry your burden of ill-feelings and hate, allow Him to deal with the situation, you just need to be willing to forgive from a genuine heart.

If you are sincere-God will help you in overcoming any burden you may be experiencing.

Only by forgiving, will the weight of hate and ill-feelings be removed from your heart and you can go on living your life to the fullest that God has in store for you.

You just need to have a positive attitude , a positive thinking outlook on life, to have the self motivation
and the self discipline to improve.

Remember, the biggest room in the whole world is the room for self improvement.

Remember: ”The only Unfulfilled Goals in Your Life are the Ones you Never Attempt”

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