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Marriage Help and Marriage Counseling Before You End Up Becoming Another Divorce Statistic ...
Mark 10:9 Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.
It is really a very sobering and stark reality in our current culture-how dismal the current divorce rate is and its impact on the global institution of marriage.
The overwhelming sadness is evident when looking at current divorce rate statistics. Why do so many marriages end up as failures?
How is your Marriage? Do you Need Marriage help or Marriage Counseling?
The global divorce rate in many countries where divorce was uncommon just 10-20 years ago, is now an everyday common reality in such places as China, Korea and even India.
These countries have looked to the west for years, in embracing these western societies’ free political, commerce and civil rights liberties for its citizens, to the point of even embracing such socially, and culturally unacceptable mores and norms as divorce.
My times have changed, divorce a mere 25-50 years ago which was viewed as a social stigma years ago, is now viewed no more differently than receiving an automobile speeding ticket. You no doubt are contemplating marriage counseling for your own marriage trouble, or someone else is experiencing problems in their own once happy marriage , before the marriage ends as another divorce statistic.
About me , I am not a marriage counselor in case you’re wondering. However I have been married 25 years to the same beautiful woman I married on April 12, 1985 , and believe our happy marriage can be a testimony , and an encouragement for others.
I believe that my marriage testimony can help you and others, in giving you the self motivation that you may need who are also having marriage trouble. Maybe you are in need of marriage help and possibly marriage counseling.
I am Christian believer in the Lord Jesus Christ, and believe completely in the Power of Prayer, and the effect that prayer can have not only in your marriage help, but also in other areas of your life. The Lord God is in the relationship business and desires nothing more than to have successful relationships with all of God's children.
When you are experiencing a stressful marriage, marriage trouble, and need marriage help, the stress of fighting and conflict resolution in your marriage, plays out in other areas of your life such as your career goals and your business goals pursuits.
If you are having troubles at home in your marriage, you can most certainly bet that you will carry your marriage trouble into your job or career-not a good thing. You have both got to earnestly pray to God in asking God, in asking Him how to meditate . God hears your prayers if you are contrite and sincere.
Marriage is a commitment between two people , not one-so both bear responsibility. You need to be able to ask and seek forgiveness from each other. Forgiveness is key, just as Christ has forgiven you of your sins, you too need to be willing to forgive your spouse, and in turn you need to ask forgiveness from your spouse as well. But you can not just give lip service. Unless you are both willing to demonstrate unconditional love towards one another, your marriage trouble will only increase and will end in failure.
Marriage Counseling Requires Honest and Open Communication.
The one thing that I have learned in 25 years of marriage is that marriage is a life long process of learning, no one has it all figured out. Only through prayer, having the hope and faith not to give up on your stressful marriage, and developing a positive attitude for yourself, and having the self motivation , are you able to make meaningful strides in your marriage.
But both partners need to be committed. Marriage is not a 50/50 proposition. The person or persons who coined that phrase more than likely failed in their own marriage and obviously needed marriage counseling themselves. It takes 100% commitment for both parties.
Marriage also requires ample time.
It ceases to amaze me that people will spend thousands of dollars for college planning for their education degree, but will not invest the time in their own marriage.
Relationships and marriages matter most and should be treated and regarded as such.
Remember, the biggest room in the entire world is the room for self improvement. Your marriage is waiting....get back in the game.
Remember: ”The only Unfulfilled Goals in Your Life are the Ones you Never Attempt”